A long awaited wedding

October 12th, 2008 by Sarah

Well, actually, the couple in question have only been planning their wedding for 6 months, but I’ve been waiting for them to get married for about 7 years!!! We have known Julian for ages, and Maria since Josiah was a tiny baby (think she introduced herself to me by coming and asking for a cuddle with him, he was quite cute in those days), and long thought they’d be great together - they took a little longer to come round to the idea ;)

We had a fantastic but very busy day. I got up early to fit in a quick trip to Pets at Home (ran out of woodshavings) so that I could clean out the guinea pigs before everything else, then it was time to get ready.

We all scrubbed up pretty nicely today I think, although Steve had to get instructions on tying his tie, and then look at the Moss Bros website to make sure he’d got it right! Hoping that one of the family photos that the official photographer took will come out nicely, but I took this one as the kids were practising their piece for the evening.

Posing for their album cover!

I had the honour of being chauffeur so we had ribbons on the car … dropped Steve & kids at the church then got to drive around town being stared at! Maria also had her photo taken by some random Japanese tourists who’d arrived at the Georgian Tearooms just as she was leaving so that was amusing! Really enjoyed the driving bit, even if I was a bit disorganised and had to get fuel between the wedding and the reception - but even that was funny as at Sainsbury’s petrol station we bumped into someone who vaguely knew Maria and had to come and say hello!

Putting ribbons on the car At Broadway House, Topsham Leaving the tea rooms In my car Maria Outside the church

Can’t really do the day justice in one short blog post, but suffice to say it was beautiful in every way possible. Everyone looked gorgeous, Maria especially was simply glowing. The service itself was meaningful and reflected the God-centredness and thoughtfulness that personifies Julian and Maria together.

Andy & Karena Entrance of the bride Exchanging rings Banner of love Leaving the church

The reception - both the coffee and cake bit after the service, and the meal later at the Tumbling Weir - was lovely, all the food was great, and the general atmosphere was one of family celebration, just as it should be. Maria had thought to put together goody bags for all the kids, so my three were thrilled to find those on their chairs, and the colouring etc. kept them happy for ages, so it worked! (2yo Josh’s playdoh amused everyone on our table, too!)

The speeches deserve a mention, as Julian’s speech was far and away the most moving I have ever heard, public declarations of love like that don’t come around all that often - definitely had me blubbing!!

Also worthy of mention was that Rich, the best man, made it to the wedding at all - he’d spent the previous week in and out of hospital, and Steve had to hold him up at various points until we found him a stick to walk with, but he made it and everyone was really pleased about that (we sent him home early though!).

Bridal party Happy Couple Josh riding the rocking horse Carnes2 Goodie bags Cutting the cake Friends and a mac Me & Steve First dance of the night!

The evening part of the reception was really fun, as there wasn’t a band or disco - instead all the guests had been invited to perform if they wanted to. So there was an eclectic mix of items from poetry to all different sorts of music, including a last minute blues jam including Julian himself which was amazing (I must also admit to being pleased with the hymn that snuck in here, as we didn’t have any proper hymns during the service!).

Anna, Abbie & Joe wanted to do something and had prepared a little trio version of Eleanor Rigby together - which went really well except that the girls only repeated the verse twice instead of three times, which Josiah got a bit upset about (watch the very end of the vid!) but at least he stopped as well!!

Got home late and knackered, dumped everything and went to bed. Then woke up at 4.30am for the Grand Prix :roll:

13 Responses to “A long awaited wedding”

  1. Alison Says:

    Lovely set of photos :) I love seeing wedding photos and that ‘I’m so happy there’s no way I could NOT be smiling this much!’ expression :)

    You 5 all look great too, and LOL @ Joe at the end of the video!

  2. Sarah Says:

    Alison, it got worse - he had a complete meltdown for about 3 minutes afterwards! But yeah, it was a great day, and I don’t think anyone had to try hard at all to smile that much :)

  3. Roslyn Says:

    That was a lovely read, thanks for sharing. i love weddings. You must make sure you give them a copy of all your photos, they really are lovely and I always find them so much nicer and capture the wedding better than official ones.

  4. Ruth Says:

    Well done - I thought of you yesterday in the sunshine. It does slightly scare me how similar Julian looks to my brother but enough said! x

  5. Michelle Says:

    Lovely pictures. I haven’t been to a wedding in a long time. Since C was a toddler. Will come back to view vid later as it will upset the television viewers in this room if I do it now.

  6. HelenHaricot Says:

    lovely wedding pics. i also haven’t been to a wedding for ages. can’t think of any likely wedding candidates either

  7. Michelle Says:

    lol watched it now. It’s the people you have to work with . . .

  8. Alison Says:

    Well Helen, that’s why I think we should stage a moonie-style mass vow renewal in your garden ….

  9. Sarah Says:

    yes, cool! I fancy having a party for our 15th anniversary … just so we can all dress up and have some fun, really, never mind the vows!!

  10. Ruth Says:

    Ah yes, those vows. And can you believe I ever said ‘obey’?!

  11. Alison Says:

    You didn’t Ruth! Oh well, can’t keep them all ;-) I actually the other day managed to half-convince C that he had said ‘obey’ :)

  12. Ruth Says:

    Yes I did - can you believe it? No, Rog can’t either!

  13. Caroline Says:

    Love the trio too :)

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