Probably the most relaxing Christmas ever

December 27th, 2008 by Sarah

I highly recommend going away for Christmas. Each time we’ve done it I’ve really enjoyed it. I guess I wouldn’t want to do it every year otherwise it wouldn’t feel different, but this year it felt particularly relaxing. Click if you want to read the full version as I wrote it mainly while we were away (yes, it is that much of a habit) … be warned it is long, rambly, and fairly boring really!

End of term
Yippee and hoorah, got to the end of Friday in one piece. At the beginning of the week I thought we’d never get there, it felt like a very long few days! The kids all broke up on Thursday so Joe spent the day with Grandpa while the girls took care of themselves (including lunch with Rog, Caitlin & Riona – thank you!). After school we had an aborted violin lesson (teacher wasn’t home, Josiah was quite happy about this!), then the Friday Fish Christmas party – girls made lots of sandwiches and pineapple & cheese sticks to take, and it was fun, with family games and quizzes etc. Anna had the youth Christmas party afterwards and we finally managed to wrap some presents, had been wondering whether we’d find time or not!

Saturday was really busy again; while Steve was working, I fitted in haircuts for all 3 kids, a quick visit to Grandma & Grandpa to pick up an interesting looking bag before we went away, then home to clean out the guinea pigs. Just managed to get that done before it was time to take Joe to his Tae Kwon Do Christmas party, which, thank God, I didn’t have to take any food to – I love the TKD tutor (and his mum and wife by the looks of it!). Home to do a water change for the fish, and get instruments ready before picking Joe up and heading into town for the annual Suzuki group Christmas busking. Seemed very quiet in town to me, for the last Saturday before Christmas. Still, plenty of money was collected for Save the Children, and we even managed to persuade Mr Featherstone to finish early ;)
Home and mad packing effort ensued – including Christmas tree as we had promised the kids that we’d decorate the holiday house. Had pasta & pesto for dinner as quickly as possible so that we could get going. One false start due to forgetting the stockings, would have been a bit of a disappointment, so we went back for them, even though it meant that there were no secrets left!

Only took an hour and a bit to get down to the resort, which is a big manor house hotel with 37 lodges in the grounds. First impressions: hotel reception was really beautiful, high ceilings, big staircases, decorated really stylishly for Christmas. Staff were friendly and gave us all the info we needed to find our lodge: Holly (they’re all named after trees. I was stupidly happy to have a Christmassy one.)
Didn’t really have a clue what to expect, it could have been anything from similar to a static caravan up to a center parcs lodge – turned out to be a bit smaller than a CP one, and only 2 bedrooms (although we knew that one of the kids would be on a camp bed) but really nicely done out, spacious enough for us for a week, towels and linen all provided with maid service every day if we want it, kitchen well equipped, and what’s more it had a Christmas tree up already (doh, would have had far more space in the car if we’d known that).
Settled everyone down, unpacked, watched Outnumbered and a Knight’s Tale and then fell into bed. So so relieved to be away from all the stresses of home – I’m sure it would have been just as nice to be at home without work/school but to be away from it all feels like real luxury. No housework, no piles of junk lying around (well, obviously, it’s all still there at home and I’ll have to catch up on it eventually, but at least I can’t see it for a week)

Sunday morning started way too early. Kids’ room was too hot and they were too excited. Still, someone made us breakfast in bed (of sorts) using the tea/coffee/bread/jam that was left in the lodge for us. Some people watched telly and others went back to sleep, while others had baths etc.
First appointment of the day was with Mr Rep who came to pick up forms and tell us what time we had to be where for the lovely timeshare presentation and more complimentary breakfast. Children went to the kids’ club shack on the hotel terrace where they watched DVDs and played XBox while we were subjected to the hard sell. Nearly caved in but can’t afford it at the moment even if we did like the idea of lots of holidays, so a no-brainer really.
In the afternoon the kids swam … we ate in the restaurant in the evening (another free meal) and came back to slob out in front of tv. Lost the ipod in kids’ room, thought it might have been taken away with laundry.

Monday: lazing around, went to Tesco’s, found my 100th cache, came back and lazed around some more. Oh, and went swimming. Curry for dinner. Watched Lars and the real girl in the evening – strange film, not at all what I was expecting, but very involving and emotional too, I liked it.

Decorating the gingerbread house Gingerbread house Games Slobbing

Tuesday: Eden Project. Cold! Great day though, even if I did want to see the lights and no-one else was bothered. I will drag them back on Boxing Day afternoon. Abbie spent the day moaning about a sore wobbly tooth, then sadistically spent 20mins pulling it out once we got home. Watched August Rush in the evening – nice film, bit of a fairy tale with lots of unbelievable coincidences, and I *really* can’t stand Freddie Highmore, but apart from that it was ok … Found the ipod in Anna’s clothes, what a big surprise.

Kids at Eden Typical family pose Christmas decoration Decorating Christmas cookies Christmas marketplace at Eden
Jack Frost Santa at the top of the Biome BKing at Eden Typical family pose

[incidental extra]
Things I like about my iphone:
Unlimited online minutes. Freedom!
Geocaching app. Of course it doesn’t help you actually find the darn things …
Lock and Roll, the one decent free game we’ve found so far. Steve currently holds the high score record, I must win it back …
Things I don’t like about my iphone: … er …. battery does seem a little quick to run down, then again I did have a day of receiving non stop texts so it might be nice to test it on a normal day! If I turn BK off I won’t actually get many texts so that will be better I think! It has had pretty heavy use when it’s been the only internet available …

[/incidental extra]

Wednesday: Christmas Eve. Got up late, lazed around. A pattern is forming here I think! But we are on holiday ;)
In the afternoon we went out for a walk at Fowey, having put the kids off swimming again until tomorrow. Tried and failed to find two geocaches while walking around; realised on getting home that the app doesn’t actually necessarily give you all the clues that are on the website – might have to pop back on Boxing Day! Or somewhere else …
Contemplated church then decided we’d done our fair share of carol services last week and it always feels a bit odd to go to church somewhere that you don’t know anyone, so decided not to – watched Carols from Kings instead ;)
Then followed an early evening film and I made a veg lasagne, really pleased with myself for making cheese sauce on an electric hob as I’m used to gas – lasagne tasted great :) Had myself a festive Baileys or three while I was cooking, too!
Very pleased to have text from cello teacher letting us know about Anna’s distinction. Don’t know how she does it, i really don’t, as sometimes when she’s practicing it sounds *so* ropey. Still I guess that’s what practice is for!
Kids have all gone to their room after watching Shrek the Halls, although it’s not quite peaceful yet … will be soon I’m sure …

Cache walk on Christmas Eve Steve's idea of a funny picture Castle at Fowey Christmas Eve

Thursday: Christmas Day
Joe came into our room at 5.45am, and played iphone games until 7am when everyone got up and dived into stockings. Lots of little things to amuse and entertain, plus the now traditional chocolate orange :) Had breakfast and then were in the pool around 9am! thought no-one else would be there but there was one other family as well.

Opening stockings Playing with stocking presents Stocking mess Christmas morning swim Christmas morning swim

Back to the lodge by 11ish and we opened the rest of the presents – not many, but they were all well appreciated.

Opening pressies Oooh, boots Christmas games Christmas chilling ... Christmas crafts

Anna loved her crafty sets and boots, Abbie trailed her doll around for the rest of the holiday, and Josiah was kept busy with his science kits and games. Steve gave me a rather nice hat, scarf and gloves set :)
[incidental extra]
Once upon a time we lived in a tiny two up two down, with our 3 children. Across the road lived a rather hunky single bloke in a huge 4 bed house. Envious already? I was. During the time we lived there, I developed a rather hysterical fantasy about this chap, which Steve and I joked about many a time. He never seemed to work (actually he sold high end designer clothes so his work was totally seasonal, he’d work hard for a couple of months then have a couple of months not doing much at all), and just seemed to swan around having parties and going on holiday! Since we moved house, Steve and he have kept in touch via cars etc., and I haven’t spoken to him at all, more than just a passing wave anyway. Kept up the fantasy crush though ;) But as it turns out, he has started his own clothing label, and told Steve about it at the garage one day. Steve therefore thought it would be hilarious to buy me something with his label in it, hence the gift this year – it is a very nice set!
[/another incidental extra]
Big treat of the day (after swimming) was Christmas dinner at the hotel restaurant. I wasn’t sure I wanted to do this in the first place, but Steve persuaded me, and in fact it was really nice. Wouldn’t want to do it every year but it felt very decadent and totally relaxing to not have to cook anything, or clear up afterwards! Dinner was delicious. Had loads of time as a result so really were able to play with new games and do crafty things with the kids so that was lovely.

Pulling crackers Pulling crackers Christmas dinner My alternative Christmas dinner
Christmas dinner at the hotel Christmas dinner at the hotel Christmas dinner at the hotel

Back to the lodge in time for the Queen and an afternoon of films, I confess, we were slobs, but it was really nice.

Friday: Boxing Day
Tired of all that tv, today was the opposite. Well, for the grown ups, anyway. It was a beautiful clear day, the first – all the other days were rather grey and dreary, so nice to see some sunshine. Steve and I walked from the hotel down to the nearest beach a mile and a half away, found a cache, and then hiked back – downhill all the way so uphill all the way back! nice to have some time on our own too – the kids stayed at the lodge playing games and watching tv.

Par Sands iphone self portrait - us on Boxing Day at Par Sands

Back for a light lunch, then squeezed in another swim – had the pool to ourselves for the latter half hour we were there, lovely.
After that we headed back to Eden because I really wanted to see it after dark. Very tempted to skate again but we didn’t, we just amused ourselves taking photos.

Eden at night Eden at night Eden at night Eden at night Eden at night

In the gift shop at the end we were umming and aahing over what to buy for our neighbour who’s looked after the guinea pigs, and was suddenly accosted by Debbie who’d recognised us from the blog (and a Different Life, gosh now that is going back and is almost embarrassing!), lovely to meet her in real life, even if it was brief and slightly surreal!
Back to the lodge in time to watch Narnia and then risotto for dinner before Pirates of the Caribbean.

Saturday: the end. Got up early for us at 7am and packed up, cooked boiled eggs for breakfast, then got on the road by 9.15am. Meant we were home by 10.30am which in turn meant that we got tidied up and all the washing done today, fab. Then caught up on a week’s ACCF ;) Just Scrabble to go now and I think I’ll be all caught up …

10 Responses to “Probably the most relaxing Christmas ever”

  1. Chris Says:

    Sounds great. I’d like to go somewhere warm and swim in the sea on Christmas Day.

    You’d think they would have taken into account that people would want to use the iphones features a lot :-) It’s the ting that makes it a no no for me despite its other charms. Glad you haven’t been disappointed overall.

  2. Merry Says:

    Does sound nice; looking forward to ACing with you.

  3. Alison Says:

    Sounds lovely :) LOLling at Steve buying you the hat/scarf/gloves :-D Really enjoyed the photos too – haircuts are very nice :)

  4. Ruth Says:

    That’s funny, we watched August Rush too. I concur – very sweet and sticky, and the slow plodding plot annoyed me, but, ah, a happy ending. Glad you had a good time. Hey, now you have a new phone you can reply to my texts (he he!). xx

  5. Ali Says:

    That does sound lovely, very relaxing and a good location for walks and Eden project.

  6. Joyce Says:

    Sounds great. We (blush) do have a timeshare (can’t get it linked, but its at Craigendarroach in Ballater), which we go to most Januarys. We bought it for a three year wedding anniversary present to ourselves, so um – a long time ago, lol. We’ve had some great holidays to the US with it as well, on exchanges, and one year a narrow boat. The maintainence fee is a PITA though, and they have no re-sale value whatsoever. However, given what we paid ours, we’ve probably had our money’s worth.

  7. HelenHaricot Says:

    loved the haircuts. and sounds like a great hols – and i liked the aubergine alt xmas dinner too

  8. Michelle Says:

    Sounds like a lovely break. How many free trips can you get before they stop trying to persuade you?

  9. Sarah Says:

    I am wondering that myself, Michelle! Another one at least, perhaps?!

  10. Elizabeth Says:

    I would have been stupidly pleased to have a lodge with a Christmassy name!

    SOunds like a wonderful holiday!

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