So, I’ve now held my first parents’ evening as a teacher. Lovely to meet parents, put names to faces, and hear about what they feel is important for their children. Not so lovely to have to set targets alongside them because I’m a rebel and I hate stuff like that – it feels like a paper pushing exercise when what the parents really wanted was just to chat- and they all needed more than 15 minutes to do it in. Ho hum.
I got to school at 7am this morning, managed to leave after parents’ eve at 6.45pm. I’m very lucky that I only live 3 minutes away, as I was home having tea at 6.50pm (the girls cooked
). Steve and I bolted ours down and then left them to it, as we were meant to be at Abbie’s parents’ evening at 6.30pm!
As it turned out, it was a Y7 new parents’ evening, where we were told about all the school rules (though we missed that part, that’s my excuse and I’m sticking to it), and lectured on e-safety. I sat at the back feeling very guilty that we don’t have parental controls on our internet, all our children have facebook accounts etc. etc. Although I felt slightly better that all our computers are downstairs in public spaces and I actively encourage ‘looking over shoulders’ – mainly I ask the kids to keep looking over mine to make sure I’m not on facebook when I should be working! When the teacher started talking about having googled girls’ names and found images of them I did imagine that she could have been reading here, but luckily having a boring surname helps with that – you have to google ‘beetroot risotto’ or ‘weight of a duck’ to find this page! Anyway. Our version of e-safety is very different to theirs
Then we were asked to enjoy mingling. Well, I can’t help it, but I don’t enjoy mingling. I was so tired, we almost left there and then – but forced ourselves to stay and chat to a few teachers. Actually it was ok – and we ended up talking about both girls, since all the teachers that we did talk to had made the link and talked to us about both of them. All fine
Home in time for Gareth Malone and a catch up on the internet, with my internet friends that I met online before knowing them in real life. They might have been stalkers ready to cyber-bully me, but funnily enough most of them are just real people that I rather like
Up early now since I couldn’t manage to do any planning last night so it will have to happen now … I’ve found I’m far more productive at school around 7am than the night before, and the kids don’t miss my nagging in the mornings, so it works all ways round.